Hate The Uncomfortable Does He Like Me? Part Of Dating And Wish You Could Feel More In Control

Here's how to feel more empowered during the early stages of meeting someone you like. Does this ring a bell...?

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You're three dates in and everything was going well, in fact you felt pretty in control but then he (or she, but for ease, I'll stick with he) stops replying as quickly to your messages, for-like-a-day... and you freak out a little. When the ball had felt firmly in your court it's now in his and you start acting a little crazy, checking WhatsApp last seen and if he's still on Tinder etc and you begin to worry if he is going to like you, choose you and decide to be with you?

You get me right!?!?! Most of us have been here - but I got you giiiiiiirls (and guys, cos I know it crosses over too)... I've figured out why we go all crazy at this stage and how to overcome it.

A little insight I had while watching Greece is all.... Watch now and leave me your comments, I'd love to hear from you xxx

Lydia Kimmerling

Life Coach, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker, The Happiness Explorer

Hey, I'm Lydia Kimmerling I am MAD, CRAZY, PASSIONATE about helping you to create a life you're super excited to wake up to. Being happy...ish, inspired...ish and fulfilled...ish is never quite enough, is it? When you feel like there is "more" out there for you, it's because there is. A life where you can't remember the last time you worried, stressed or doubted yourself and your friends ask you "What's your secret?" because you GLOW, SPARKLE and SHINE. That can be you and I will show you how. I got my first television job at 17, ran my own restaurant in Panama at 22, taught Hip Hop in Cornwall at 26, was cabin crew for Virgin Atlantic at 28, coached CEO's on confidence at 29, then at 30 took the leap as a certified life & business coach with The International Coaching Federation to launch my very own transformational company called The Happiness Explorer. I am a master of change, so I can tell you that there is NEVER really anything to fear, but has it always been easy? NO! I have blocks, down days and self-doubt too, life doesn't stop throwing you curve balls, it's how you catch the ball and throw it back that changes. Plus, you never know until you try, right? At 32, I now know what the key is to waking up every single day excited about the life you live. It is to know yourself inside and out and to love every part of who you are.The more you know yourself, the more of you there is to love and the more you love yourself, the more you want to give yourself a life you love. The question is…What do you really want?