Is Your Communication Stopping You From Receiving What You Want

Even though what he was asking me to do was clear, it wasn’t quite specific enough. In this circumstance it was something that I call ‘girl code’, an un-written understanding to be very specific and it made me wonder – how often is our communication not clear enough?

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If you ever feel frustrated because life isn’t bringing you what you want, or you can’t get people around you to do what you need them to do, it could be because you’re not communicating clearly enough.

I know we can all find it hard to be direct with what we want, in fact there are two common blocks which I share in this video about why we hold back and fluff our words.

My communication has changed so much since I started to coach, part of the training is becoming a master communicator and there are a couple of swaps that I made to how I communicate which I wanted to share with you.

In this video I explain what inspired this blog, I share the two most common blocks I see that hold us back from communicating clearly about what we want and give you two easy swaps you can make in your own communication.


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Lydia Kimmerling

Life Coach, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker, The Happiness Explorer

Hey, I'm Lydia Kimmerling I am MAD, CRAZY, PASSIONATE about helping you to create a life you're super excited to wake up to. Being happy...ish, inspired...ish and fulfilled...ish is never quite enough, is it? When you feel like there is "more" out there for you, it's because there is. A life where you can't remember the last time you worried, stressed or doubted yourself and your friends ask you "What's your secret?" because you GLOW, SPARKLE and SHINE. That can be you and I will show you how. I got my first television job at 17, ran my own restaurant in Panama at 22, taught Hip Hop in Cornwall at 26, was cabin crew for Virgin Atlantic at 28, coached CEO's on confidence at 29, then at 30 took the leap as a certified life & business coach with The International Coaching Federation to launch my very own transformational company called The Happiness Explorer. I am a master of change, so I can tell you that there is NEVER really anything to fear, but has it always been easy? NO! I have blocks, down days and self-doubt too, life doesn't stop throwing you curve balls, it's how you catch the ball and throw it back that changes. Plus, you never know until you try, right? At 32, I now know what the key is to waking up every single day excited about the life you live. It is to know yourself inside and out and to love every part of who you are.The more you know yourself, the more of you there is to love and the more you love yourself, the more you want to give yourself a life you love. The question is…What do you really want?