3 reasons why authentically reaching out to another woman illuminates her path

Women don't have to do this alone, in fact, the happiest women around find other women to confide in and illuminate their path! We do it and you could too

Go to the profile of Lynette Allen
Jul 05, 2017
1
0
Upvote 1 Comment

I have to tell you, I LOVE this picture! These women form just a small part of my team and this picture really does say a thousand words! 

While each of them have given me something of great value which has illuminated my path, I know I have done the same for them too and in turn THEY have done the same for hundreds of other women. 

When a woman reaches out to another, so many things happen!  When women have reached out to me and we have spoken, candidly, authentically and woman-to-woman, energy literally shifts! 

They come up with ideas, thoughts, inspirations, one thing leads to another and conversations lead to the most amazing outcomes. Those conversations leave both of us full of relief, feel-good feelings flood our bodies and smiles turn up where tears once fell.  In a whole ROOM full of women, just quadruple that energy! 

There is something so strong in being able to speak authentically and confidentially to another woman - someone who;

  • is not related to you
  • has their focus just on you
  • is going to listen

It's MIND-BLOWING!!! I've personally had 4 massive conversations in 2 days where light-bulb moments have dinged everywhere! It's phenomenal, I'm sure you've experienced it too.   

Here's my 3 reasons why authentically reaching out to another woman illuminates her path (and yours!) 

1) In the articulating of your confusion, cracks of light appear 

And boy they really do. Every time. When you have to explain in detail what has happened or what situation you find yourself in, you are unveiling your situation to yourself also. And when that happens you start talking around the topic, exploring into it, explaining exactly what you mean so the other person understands but in the doing of that YOU also get a deeper insight.

2) The gift of being given someone's attention makes a very special connection 

We all have priorities you know, we all have things to do - I have yet to meet a woman who has nothing going on and can while the day away star gazing. And yet, when busy women, with schedules and time restraints and places to be, give other women the gift of their attention - a very special connection emerges. It shifts BOTH of you emotionally, and both actually feel completely taken care of. 

3) It shatters the myth that we should be able to do this all by ourselves 

I've talked about this in some of my free video training series. There is this thing that some of us have that we should be able to figure it out all by ourselves, that we don't need someone else's input or nose in our business, that it's private and we need to put on our 'perfect' face - to protect our reputation, business wise or personally. 

That's frankly B**S***! Completely. It's old fashioned now and it's not true. The happiest women I know have confided in people, they have sought refuge with women who add to their thinking, they have been part of conversations that have shifted their energy and thinking process - they have realised that no-one is perfect, that everyone has their own struggles and that the answers lie in being you just as you are.

I'm currently looking for women who have lived!

Women who have a story, who know what it's like to change, to grow, to be WAY out of their comfort zone I'm interested in talking to women who have experienced life, who are proud of who they became based on what they've been through. 

If you think that's you and you would like to consider holding spaces for other women to have safe conversations, to talk about their blockages, discuss what's most important to them right now and be with them as they explore ideas, strategies, options - then I want to hear from you. 

I'm not asking for experts, I'm asking for REAL women with REAL hearts and REAL stories to inspire other women with me as part of my team. Training starts at the end of September you need to be in the UK in September, November & December. 

I would love to invite you to fill in this form if you think you are ready to give other women your time and attention?

I'm looking for brave, interesting women - and I think that could be you.

Lynette x

Go to the profile of Lynette Allen

Lynette Allen

Creator of Her Invitation, the Female Empowerment Company

Author, Broadcaster, Coach/Mentor to female Entrepreneurs, Mum of 2 & grandmother to Rhodie & Mac
11 Contributions
3 Followers
1 Following

Please sign in or register for FREE to comment