Why is it so important? Because this inner child that is in you since your childhood has been waiting to reveal a lot of yourself. It’s basically a treasure for yourself that you are keeping inside that you have kept so deep in yourself that you have forgotten it. And this treasure really holds a lot of keys to your truth to your true being, to all of your gifts that you came into that life to express.
And of top of it is a lot of emotion that you were not allowed, you were
ashamed to express during your childhood. So this box of emotions, gifts, memories, memory of your soul is a huge asset in your life, but we are not raised in a way so that we can allow ourselves to tap into it. So today I would love to show you the road to it to show you how you can start to connect with your inner child, start to talk to him or her, start to be friend again. And it will allow yourself to really connect with that, energy that entity that is in you, that is you but you have not really allowed to speak in your life. So now lets talk about the process of how we create an inner child, basically.
So when we come into this lifetime, we come as a baby and evidently we are a soul who embody into that little baby in a family. The minute you embody this new physical body you will be asked to fit into this new world for you. As you come in you are a pure soul basically made of love basically ready to love and receive love as you were in another realm, but today you are a physical body and you are a human living with others and you need in order to survive you need to be loved. But the people who receive you in this world are expecting from you to be as they wish. Because that’s the way they are raised, educated, we are in a world where we have rules and everybody to really listen to these rules in order to fit.
So this baby is going to progress and grow in a family in an environment who is going to ask him to change himself or herself in order to become suitable, loeable so the soul who is coming has to say ok I need to change myself in order to be fitting in this society. So the baby is going to create new attitudes, new way of being in order to be loved by the mother, by the father etc. So this minute the baby is changing his truth in order to be loved he is creating an ego and the ego is going to be this personality you are going to become more and more in your life in order to be loved in order to be successful in this world.
So the being is creating a personality on top of the soul right so the child as he grows is going to answer to the society call, create a personality but at the same time the soul is saying hey , I am this, I have these gifts, I came here to love, to be loved I came here to express a number of things, I am creative in that field, I paint, or I’m very good in organising this or that, whatever, everybody has gifts and that’s very important to know. And the soul is coming with the gifts but very often the soul has no way to express them because we are not expecting that from a baby. We are expecting the baby to listen to the parents, the way they think to the school, the way the school is thinking for them, so basically this child is growing up in a very tight environment where the soul cannot really express itself. So this child has gifts, and cannot allow himself to express them.
The second thing is that the child has a lot of emotion. Very natural emotion that springs from his heart and very often those emotions are not allowed, for such a reason like he wants to sing he wants to shout because he is not happy he wants to jump and the parents don’t want that. Whatever, its you know any child has a lot of desire and you know when you see a child how much joy there is in a child but very often the education the raising is limiting the expression, the creativity of the child, the child is going to have a lot of moments of frustration and those emotions you’re going to feel are really, really strong and you can see in tantrums in children. Children have a lot of tantrums because they can’t express that energy that is in us and nobody can really understand them because we are not raised to understand really what the soul is coming to tell us. So the child comes with his gifts cannot express them fully. So he has to keep them somewhere in himself, knowing that one day that he will be able to express them. He had a lot of moments of frustration or emotion he could not show, he could not express he will keep them for himself, so all these are stuck in but all these are kept in what I call the inner child. Is all this childhood where the child wanted to express the soul, capacity, the soul gifts, the soul emotions but could not express them because it was not allowed. This is all kept inside our selves in what I call the inner child.
And this is an entity that is still alive in us, it will never go away because this is our essence. So basically we put aside our essence in a corner of our being in order to fit in and be able to live in this society who is asking us a lot of different things you know in the job in school you are asked so many things that are not really suitable for your soul but you are obliged to do them. How can you escape it?
This childhood is still living in yourself and that’s very important to know, it never dies. it’s an eternal feeling it’s where you knew everything basically about life but were not able to express it because you didn’t have the tools for it. As you arrive evidently for a number of years you are not able to manifest it with words, some kids evidently can manifest it through drawings or any art, any craft but still it’s not really easy for people to understand. But also I have to say that society is excusable in a way because your parents were not raised in a way that they could understand that, but we really need to break the chain and allow children to be who they are. I don’t want to polarise also on society and say it’s all bad, I’m just saying that a big part of what we are asked to do is not suitable to ourselves. And very often in order to comply we need to forget a big piece of ourselves and this big piece is in the inner child.
So what I would love you to be able to do is really be able to connect with this part of yourself because as the inner child is really a bank of memories for you, of memories of the emotions in your life and the memory of your gifts, as you open the door to that bank of emotions and your gifts you will be able to revive them, to heal a lot of wounds from the past and you will be able to tap into your gifts, see more clearly how you can express them. And also as you connect to this energy of your childhood you will feel that vivid energy that children have and maybe connect to that energy of everything is possible that we really lack when we become adults, as you know you just put TV on or you just listen to the global consciousness, it’s very depressing, it’s very negative, nothing is allowing you to dream and we’re exactly the opposite. You need to dream, you need to think that everything is possible in order to express. So you will ask me how do we do that how do we do that how do you connect with your inner child? The best way to connect with your inner child is evidently the meditation. Meditating to connect with your inner child is definitely for me the best way. Evidently you can take a pen and a paper and start having a dialogue with him or her, because writing is also a very good way to really go deep in yourself and ask your inner child to come to you and answer yourself and answer ask your inner child to come to you and start talking to yourself and it will. Each one of us has evidently a way to connect with the deep self so meditating or writing is always amazing.
So now I will offer you a guided meditation in order for you to connect with your inner child.