Our 10-year old asked my wife's grandad for help with her history project. I've seen it today and it leaves me queasy. It includes a girl in the 1930s on the toilet and bending over being caned.
Hey Paul, what is making you uneasy?
It can help to brainstorm all possible options for approaching this situation to help you work through it.
Or ask yourself "What do I need to do to let it go?"