Our 10-year old asked my wife's grandad for help with her history project. I've seen it today and it leaves me queasy. It includes a girl in the 1930s on the toilet and bending over being caned.

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Paul Appleby on Jan 02, 2016 • 1 answer
I don't know her grandfather at all well, as he has lived abroad for years. He seems nice enough and our daughter really liked him at once. I've seen nothing else suspicious. She isn't worried and said well, outside toilets and the cane were normal then and nobody has them now so that was really interesting, she doesn't want to drop those topics. My wife is defensive. It seems to be only me who is uneasy.

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Hey Paul, what is making you uneasy?
It can help to brainstorm all possible options for approaching this situation to help you work through it.
Or ask yourself "What do I need to do to let it go?"

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Lydia Kimmerling on Feb 09, 2016