Why The Tiniest Of Steps Will Create Big Change In Your Life

I know that big goals can feel like they are really far away and that it seems you need to take huge leaps to get there, but did you know that the smallest of steps can create the biggest change?

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If we can't see or feel the ground breaking change in our lives, it can sometimes feel like we're just not doing enough.

I want to remind you that the opportunity to create ground breaking change is available to us ALL on a day to day basis. In fact you're probably already doing it, you just haven't realised.

The important thing to remember is that it's all of the little steps we take each day that create life changing results.

"It's the subtle shifts that can reveal the most radical change"
Gabby Bernstein - Life Coach & Author

For example, if you're trying to change the way you think to a more positive, supportive and kind mindset, it takes time and it more often than not it doesn't happen overnight [you can always be the exception].

Personal growth is most often a slow but sure process that includes gradual awareness, effort and persistence, repeated on a daily basis.

These are my four steps that help me change my negative behaviour into positive behaviour, which then helps me create the life I want.

  • Catch yourself
  • Correct yourself
  • Forgive yourself
  • Accept yourself


Then one day, in the future, you casually say to a friend...

"You know it's interesting, I noticed the other day that I don't beat myself up about not being good enough anymore"

That's it.

As cool as a cucumber, no song and dance or ground breaking revelations, because the most radical change already took place, each day, in all of the little steps you took.

The key to success is consistency and not giving up.

What small steps are you taking?

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Lydia Kimmerling

Life Coach, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker, The Happiness Explorer

Hey, I'm Lydia Kimmerling I am MAD, CRAZY, PASSIONATE about helping you to create a life you're super excited to wake up to. Being happy...ish, inspired...ish and fulfilled...ish is never quite enough, is it? When you feel like there is "more" out there for you, it's because there is. A life where you can't remember the last time you worried, stressed or doubted yourself and your friends ask you "What's your secret?" because you GLOW, SPARKLE and SHINE. That can be you and I will show you how. I got my first television job at 17, ran my own restaurant in Panama at 22, taught Hip Hop in Cornwall at 26, was cabin crew for Virgin Atlantic at 28, coached CEO's on confidence at 29, then at 30 took the leap as a certified life & business coach with The International Coaching Federation to launch my very own transformational company called The Happiness Explorer. I am a master of change, so I can tell you that there is NEVER really anything to fear, but has it always been easy? NO! I have blocks, down days and self-doubt too, life doesn't stop throwing you curve balls, it's how you catch the ball and throw it back that changes. Plus, you never know until you try, right? At 32, I now know what the key is to waking up every single day excited about the life you live. It is to know yourself inside and out and to love every part of who you are.The more you know yourself, the more of you there is to love and the more you love yourself, the more you want to give yourself a life you love. The question is…What do you really want?