Where To Start When You Know You're Meant For More.

You're supposed to be satisfied. You're NOT supposed to question the way things have worked out. ​ You've worked hard to get to where you are and whether you like it or not is irrelevant. It's just LIFE. Nevertheless, you FEEL that something is missing, or not quite right. You want to know, you NEED to know: What are you supposed to do when you don't feel satisfied?

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What are you supposed to do?

You're supposed to be satisfied. You're NOT supposed to question the way things have work out. 

You've worked hard to get to where you are and whether you like it or not is irrelevant. 

It's just LIFE. 

You know there's something missing. You know you're meant for MORE but you can't quite put your finger on what that MORE is. You feel that something is missing, or at the very least, something is not quite right. 

You NEED an answer. 

You want a sign.

But you're not really sure what sort of a sign you're looking for. Maybe you search the internet on the off chance you'll find the answer there. 

Now your biggest problem is how to narrow down the millions of results that good old Google throws up when you search online for help. You're confronted with help for singles, help for couples, help for business owners, help for employees, help for everything under the sun. 

Right now you're not even sure where to start. You don't really know which part of your life needs help the most or most urgently. It's confusing the heck out of you.

I'm going to let you in to a secret…

The answer you're looking for?

It's not just about business…

It's not just about relationships…

It's not even really just about life…


So what is it about?

It's All About YOU!

So where do you start?

There's a deeper calling, a bigger picture. A thing you were meant to do. A person you were meant to be.

Something got in the way. 

Something happened and one day you were here instead of there, and her instead of you.

It's driving you crazy.

You do a quick life audit:

You live well.

You do OK… BUT

It's not enough.

It's not enough, any more!

You feel guilty.

You imagine you're imagining it.

It doesn't make sense. 

So what do you want?

You want a fulfilling work life. A place in the world of work where you truly feel that you belong. You want a home life that soothes your soul and fills your heart.

Maybe you just want to make a bucket full of money and retire to a desert island where you can sip cocktails all day…

Whatever your dream is, I can tell you this: You Can Have It, ALL of it.


What I'm trying to say is that it's never just about one thing, or one aspect of your life. It's generally a combination of things that when put together cause you to feel dissatisfied with your life as it currently is. 

There's one piece of the puzzle that's guaranteed to get the results you seek though, and that piece is YOU. 

It doesn't matter how much you fight change. It doesn't matter how much you believe it's someone else, and not you that's the problem, as soon as YOU decide to change things the magic will begin.

I feel like I'm talking in riddles a bit here. It's really very simple though. 

What do you do?

YOU have to change. You have to grow. You have to evolve. If you want a life different to that which you are living then YOU have to be the change otherwise nothing changes. 

You are the catalyst. 

It's all up to you.

And that's why it's never really JUST about the job or the kids or the marriage or the business and why instead it's all about YOU.

Jane Rapin ACC

Business & Personal Coach | Lawyer, Jane Rapin ~ https://www.facebook.com/janerapincoach

I help professionals to reach their full potential. Starting a business takes guts. Get it off to the best start with my unique blend of coaching, commercially focussed strategy and targeted mindset work. I’ll help you get out of your own way, overcome self-doubt and dispel negativity. The result? You have more fun doing what you love. I work internationally and locally, across a broad range of industries. In addition to being a certified business and personal coach, I'm also a certified Tapping Into Wealth Transformational Coach. I've been coaching and mentoring for over 25 years, helping employees and business owners across a wide range of sectors including law, project management, engineering, retail, leisure, insurance, government initiatives to help the long-term unemployed, NHS and more. If you'd like to find out more about how I can help you, please feel free to contact me via the links here in my profile or via my website (www.janerapin.com). I can't wait to help you!