Reconnecting with what used to matter

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Oftentimes when clients come to therapy, they are suffering with symptoms that are dominating their current experience of life.  It may be trauma memories that are intruding into the here and now, or anxiety that interupts their thoughts continually, or low mood that seems to suck the joy out of life.

In all of these situations, it can feel as if the connection to our deeper selves has been lost.  You may have stopped doing activities you used to enjoy because you no longer find them meaningful, or fear may be restricting what you feel able to engage with.

A useful question to ask yourself when you have troubling mental health symptoms, is When do I feel most like me?  What pastimes and activities give you energy and lift you up?  What is it that makes your heart sing?

Sometimes this question may draw a blank.  When this is the case, ask yourself what USED to feel like me?  What used to energise me?  What used to make my heart sing?

Finding new ways to integrate old loves into your life can be uplifting and fulfilling.  Doing things that give you pleasure, even when you don't feel like it, can be a great way of caring for yourself and beginning to take control back from your symptoms.

So, what would you do if you did not feel afraid?  What would you do if you had the energy?  Whatever it is, why not be bold and give it a go?

For support with troubling mental health symptoms, please get in touch.

Fe Robinson, Psychotherapist

Hi. I'm Fe, and I'm here to help you thrive, whatever life brings. I believe every client is unique, I work with you to help you explore, discover and grow in whatever ways are right for you. I work with a wide range of clients, both long and short term. I offer Psychotherapy, EMDR therapy and Couples Counselling to UK clients online and in Gainford, Co.Durham in North-East England. I am UKCP Accredited and an EMDR Europe Practitioner, and offer Clinical Supervision to counsellors and psychotherapists online and in person. Following a career in Organisation Development I became a therapist because it's my heart work. Before having my family and starting my private practice I worked in the NHS and mental health charities.