What is it like to go to counselling?
Clients share their experiences of their counsellor and how it was to work with them.
Have you ever wondered what it is like to go to counselling? Have you ever wondered what it is like to speak to a person you don't know about what is troubling you? In this post clients who have had counselling explain what it was like for them. These clients took part in research asking about their views of counselling and how they found it. Here they explain what they thought of their counsellor and how it was to be in a therapeutic relationship with them. These are the clients' own words:
"I would say it was a really positive experience, just being able to sit with somebody who is prepared to listen, not judge but also be able to feedback what’s going on. Basically, to help me clarify what was happening, and I would say it is really good if you are struggling with things, like struggling with something in your life. There is someone there who can help you clarify what is going on and help you work things out for yourself. What is best for you, you know, there is no advice, they don’t tell you what to do, because a lot of people think when they go they think ‘oh you know yeah they will tell me what I should do'. And that is not what it’s about because it is about knowing what you need to do for yourself."
"I felt like I could tell her anything and, you know and I did, I was very open and could be very honest, and kind of felt from early on that there was a connection there."
"Talking to someone who is remaining impartial, remaining calm, willing to listen and I am not worrying that I am upsetting them or annoying them."
"It was a space to just open up really, but you know I think what’s good, what the counsellor allowed me to do, was talk to myself. I suppose in a way, so she’d use trigger words that she was obviously picking up and then she would allow me that time to think ‘okay, let’s like look at that particular thing."
"Just being able to articulate and that person being able to hold it for you and be with you in it. It just felt so supportive I think. It felt supportive and that you know, with someone just there for you. For that bit of you, at that time."
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