Women Are Too Emotional! Really...?

We've all heard it a million times, women get too emotional at work. I'd like to challenge that. Naturally.

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Feb 25, 2015
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I am often told that women are too emotional, especially at work.

I’m not entirely sure what that means.

I suspect it means that most women express and show their emotions in a way that most men don’t, hence as men are always the yardstick for acceptable behaviour at work, it’s deemed too much.

What is really being said is women show different emotions than men.

Interestingly I’m told it by both genders, with women themselves seeing it as a weakness too.

It may be that men have been socialised to suppress emotion and it might be that work would be a much better place if emoting had a place too. Of course, emotions are in evidence at work but some emotions are more welcome than others. Anger can be viewed as a sign of strength and machismo, in a man. It’s not always so welcome in a woman. Similarly a man who shows his softer side is deemed unmanly and might be scorned by colleagues. The man expressing emotion may be told to ‘stop behaving like a girl. ‘ And it’ll be meant as an insult, naturally.

We’re all party to this gender stereotyping by emotions.

I think we should view emotions as a sophisticated radar system which is giving us some valuable information. Take time to consider what your emotions (or instincts) are telling you regardless of gender. You might be surprised.

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Jane C Woods

Women's Personal Development Specialist - Changing People, -

Hi, I’m Jane C Woods and I have an absolute passion for helping women achieve success in their lives. Be it the glass ceiling, the crystal maze, or very personal issues, I’m all about helping women achieve to their full potential and live the way they want to without being carbon copies of men. But I’m not about putting men down in order for women to get ahead, there’s plenty of room; I just want the guys to shifty up a bit… If my face looks familiar it's because I love Psychologies magazine (I've been buying it since the very first issue, such a good resource) and it's the only place I choose to advertise my courses. I write on women’s issues on my blog, www.changingpeople.co.uk, and am regularly featured in magazines, and on radio, but I’m probably best known for RenewYou. RenewYou is my one day personal development course for women. We have an international network of experienced, specialist women licensed to deliver it and empower women across the globe. Our goal is to reach one million women. It’s a big goal but… In 2013 we started with a single RenewYou specialist, me. Now you can find a RenewYou Courses across the UK, in the USA, Canada, Greece, Bangkok, Pakistan, South Africa, Belgium, with new countries being added all the time. My dream was to create a thriving and caring business on ethical, and dare I say, feminine terms, with a real community spirit of help and encouragement. And it’s actually happening with the support, expertise, and enthusiasm of my wonderful trainers. I think, (apart from my two lovely kids, a daughter and a son) that it’s probably my proudest achievement to date. Wonderful Changing People Women: One of the joys and privileges of my work is that I’ve connected with some really inspirational and wonderful women – from politics to entertainment to academia. They include: TV presenter, house fixer and matchmaker Sarah Beeny Amazing entrepreneur Sam Roddick of Coco de Mer Outspoken and entertaining academic Mary Beard Politicians like Siobhan Benita and Natalie Bennett Ex BBC broadcaster Miriam O’Reilly who bravely took on the might of the BBC- and triumphed A very rare interview with Sarah Montague, of the influential BBC Radio 4 Today programme I hope you like the posts and I hope they are helpful. Live life to the max and never hide your light under any bushels!

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Susannah Hebden over 3 years ago

Great blog, I totally agree. I've been told I'm too emotional by a variety of people all my life and felt for a long time this must mean I had a fundamental flaw. These days I realise it's because I have passion and empathy and that I care deeply about things and people. It enables me to feel truly alive. So I'm proud these days of my 'flaw' and happily agree when people call me emotional!