Excitement and Gratitude

Week 29 of 'The Great Wake Up!'

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Jul 17, 2016
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Last year I kept a gratitude journal. As with most things I do, I started with good intentions but it didn't take long before I began to neglect it and shortly after that I stopped doing it all together. Unfortunately I let other things take over and I got caught up in the day-to-day 'stuff' that meant my daily gratitude practice fell further down my 'to do' list.

Which is a shame when I look back on it. I've read a lot about the benefits of having a gratitude practice and for the short period I did it, it made a positive difference in my life. But as with anything, I needed to ensure that I made time for it and to make it a priority, which I didn't do.

So this was a great opportunity to try and pick it up again and to remind myself of how helpful I found it.

Something I had never tried before was to identify first thing in the morning all the things that I was excited about for the day ahead. I had never thought to do this, but it makes perfect sense. I usually wake up in quite a negative frame of mind where I'm worrying about all that I have to do that day. Clearly this doesn't start the day off in the best of ways for me.

This week was the perfect time for me to try this as I haven't had a very good couple of weeks. And it worked a treat! I found that a small shift in perspective made a big difference to the way I approached each day. It helped me focus on the things I had to look forward to, rather than the things I wasn't - whether it was feeling excited about the weather, going to the theatre or even the thought of getting through a big piece of work. It helped me begin my day off on the right note and I found this carried through with me for the rest of the day.

Combining this with a reflection at the end of the day, of all the things I was grateful for, felt like the perfect combination. As I mentioned I usually focus on the negative side of things - going over something that has gone wrong, getting annoyed about things that hadn't quite turned out as I'd hoped and just generally worrying. Focussing on the things that I was grateful for helped me be more aware of the things that had gone right. Even if something didn't go as I'd hoped I tried to look at what I'd gained from that experience and what lessons I had learned, being grateful for those.

This exercise has really made a difference to what has otherwise been a difficult week so I fully intend to continue with this, and this time I'm going to try my hardest to keep it up.

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Preeti

I started off as a Great Wake Up! blogger but that wonderful project has sadly come to an end so now I am writing about being an introvert. I, like many other introverts, can feel lost as more and more value is placed on the number of connections we make rather than their quality. I often find myself in situations where I don't fit in and where louder people get a greater share of the focus. I am regularly seen as 'the quiet one' as if somehow that is a bad thing, when in fact, I think it's a pretty good thing. This blog is about my journey to find out more about the introvert personality and embrace my quiet side.

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Go to the profile of Mark Cuddy
Mark Cuddy almost 2 years ago

I'm glad you've got so much out of this exercise. Take care.

Go to the profile of Chris Baréz-Brown
Chris Baréz-Brown almost 2 years ago

Great news Preeti, sounds like it was good reminder, thanks for the feedback, Chris X

Go to the profile of Ffi Ffi Trixibelle
Ffi Ffi Trixibelle almost 2 years ago

I'm so glad it worked well for you :)

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Sam Bragg almost 2 years ago

I'd completely forgotten about a daily gratitude list. So easy to look on the negative side and forget the positives. Thanks for the reminder.

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Jacqui almost 2 years ago

Preeti, I struggled with the excitement bit of this. Your post has cemented my need to perservere with it!